tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7375794161154529176.post6894785418896628085..comments2023-05-12T08:02:42.122-04:00Comments on Frum doula: Life with FourRuchihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01541748159343849889noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7375794161154529176.post-72756267053271405882011-12-18T20:13:25.204-05:002011-12-18T20:13:25.204-05:00If anyone can do it, you can! You seem to do ever...If anyone can do it, you can! You seem to do everything with grace. =) It's a crazy wild life some days but it is so worth it. Kids are so much fun.<br />And i should really clean up my language so you don't have to apologise for it every time you like one of my posts... lol... my grandma complains about my language, too! <br />It's my voice, though--I'm actually a pretty conservative and religeous person, but I express myself kind of irreverently... =p<br /><br />I'm so glad you had such a beautiful home birth! And that it was so positive for you. As for not having your husband there, I have to say that births are kind of like weddings in my experience; something always goes not according to plan! Or at least not the way you wish it would have in retrospect. <br />For Amarys' birth I wish my kids were there. I had planned it, and they were prepped, and in the moment Brent asked and I said NO! And then no one thought to ask later and they missed the actual birth. I am still pretty sad about it. But that's the way birt goes I guess! =)<br /><br />My midwife had had a baby die in utero and told me the story about it after I was crying about my kids not being there and she told me a bit about something she regretted at that birth, but that it was still by far her best birth out of three, because it was so peaceful. That helped, because if she could still treasure that birth story even after her baby passed away and the big something she regretted (her story, I don't want to overstep by sharing it asunder), then I could get over not having my kids there. Anyways, wayyyyy aside. And this comment was not supposed to be about me! It was to say that I love your posts and I'm glad you had a beautiful home birth, and that I am sure you will do very well with four kidlets. You are good at what you do, and I admire you. =)melissa v.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14872177586401321895noreply@blogger.com